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Wednesday, September 28, 2005

What 26 and no kids how come ????...That has been the question people seem to be asking me alot lately....It always seems to go like this

Them:How old are you ?
Me:26
Them: How many kids do you have ?
Me:None
Them:Why not your approaching 30
Me:Well I don't know if I want any & if I have kids I want to be able to afford to care for them
Them:You don't wait till you can afford a child you just have them and make due
Me: I don't want to have to make due..I dont want to have to worry about how i'm going to put clothes on my childs back or food in their mouths.....

That comment usually ends the conversation gee I wonder why....

//Rae-N-Washington struck at 6:51 AM\\

Friday, September 23, 2005

This was sent out in a group I am in and I thought that everyone should read this

10 COMMANDMENTS OF LOVING A BIG BEAUTIFUL WOMAN

1. I won't be ashamed to be seen with you.

2. I won't be embarrassed by your size.

3. I won't hide you away out of sight.

4. I won't find you unattractive at any weight.

5. I won't ever find you un-sexy.

6. I won't allow others to put you down.

7. I won't tolerate you putting yourself down.

8. I won't take you where you can't be accomodated.

9. I won't let anyone show you disrespect.

10. I won't let a day go by without telling you how admired,loved and special you are.

//Rae-N-Washington struck at 3:39 PM\\

Thursday, September 22, 2005

~~~Miami Ink~~~OMG I am hooked on this Tv Show on TLC(The Learning Channel) its called Miami Ink...I heard of it but never saw it until this week but I am hooked on this show...I am a tattoo freak I wanna get one but I hate needles...So I'm gonna have to grin and bear it because I want one....I want a lion with a thrown though its paw and a few other ones....I want to start a photo book of people's tattoo's I know various people with tattoo and a couple have said they would let me take pics of theirs and put them in a book maybe even post them online somewhere....Well as it progresses I'll let you know more..See you in my posts

//Rae-N-Washington struck at 1:39 AM\\

Thursday, September 15, 2005

I know i've blogged about can men and women be just friends and I got a few responses some people say yes and some say no its impossible....Well I say yes they can be friends because I have a real good friend name Jon who lives in Colorado....we have been friends for atleast six months and he is a really great person we are able to hold a conversation with one another without sex coming up which seems to be very rare with most people you meet online these days...But its nice to be friends with someone who you can hold a conversation with no matter what it is....Its nice to be friends with someone who knows the boundaries of your friendship...Its nice just to have a friend who cares about you and your well being and nice versa.....So do I think man and women can be friends yes I do and it would be cool if everyone could have a friend like that

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Tuesday, September 13, 2005

For some reason I have been tired as hell lately...I have no clue what's going on I can barely stay awake half the time...No matter how many hours I get it just dont seem to do shit for me I could lay in bed all day and sleep the whole time I was there maybe wale up off and on a few times but within a few min maybe 10-15 tops im back alseep again and it sucks...I yawn all the damn time. I can sleeep for 8 or more hrs and still be tired or I can sleep for 4 or 6 hrs and still be tired. I can take a sleeping pill but why bother cause they don't work......So I guess next step is the Doctor oh yea what fun.....I'm thinking maybe its my blood pressure meds or something but I'll find out soon enough...I know i'm not anemic cause she already tested me for that so that isn't it....Maybe its that i'm lacking potassium cause of some of the Pills i'm taking...But hopefully soon i'll know

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Monday, September 12, 2005

Ok I missed a few days but I haven't been feeling well and on the note the next topic was suppose to be love but I think its gonna be religion.....I am Pagan?Wiccan & I swear when I tell some people that you would think I said my name is Satan & i'm here to steal your soul.....The first question they always ask is "Do you worship the Devil" I'm like What The Fuck no I dont we don't believe in the Devil....And them come more dumb questions that Ignore that is where I usually walk away or stop listening...I hate people who bad mouth things or hate things they know nothing about or because so and so saiad this it has to be true if you really wanna know if its true either pick up a damn book and read about it or ask someone who knows what they hell they are talking about....I remember the first time I brought a book about Wicca I was in the books tore walking around and I walked past this lady she was in the religion section and she smiled and I smiled back then she saw the book I had man I swear she jumped about 5 feet back I think if she couild have she would have ran away screaming waving her hands in the air yelling grab your kids and save yourselves letting everyone know there was a Pagan in the bookstore......All I ask is you respect me for my religon choices as you would want someone to respect you for your religion choices

//Rae-N-Washington struck at 3:11 AM\\

Monday, September 05, 2005

Ok we are all adults here or I hope everyone reading this blog is lol....Today's topic is Fuck Buudies....Now the definition of a F**k Buddy is someone you only call or see when you want sex nothing more you dont call them when you want to go to a movie or go shopping its STRICTLY for sex only...The reason I am bloggig on this cause lately this has been a topic among some friends of mines and me and I figured what the hell why not...So I asked a few people how do you keep your buddy from falling for you and what are the rules to a F**k Buddy relationship here were their answers.................................

1. Show no affection no hugging or holding hands. no I miss you.
2. Be upfront and honest let the other person know you are only in it for one reason(and its not to be boyfriend and girlfriend)
3. No spending the night once the deed is done and gone so shouldn't they
4. You don't ask where is this relationship going or talk about your future together
5. Don't get clingy or become a stalker calling every 5 min or emailing everyday asking when are we gonna see one another again.
6. No saying I love you.
7. No broadcasting to everyone that you 2 are F**k Buddies

I'm sure there are more & if anyone who is reading this cares to add anything plz comment and let me know....
I know people are probably people wondering why in the heck I am blogging about this and too tell you the truth lol SHEER & UTTER BORDEM LOL.......

Tomorrow Topic is Love...See you in the posts

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Sunday, September 04, 2005

Before I have BBWs around the world hunting for me plz let me say I meant that SOME BBWs are like that not ALL BBW's...I'm a BBW so I know LOL

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For those of you who read this I know I should be the last person to have a blog cause I can't up to save my life but I swear I am going to try and keep going here....Hey its like I said when you don't have an exciting life its hard to blog about nothing now isn't it but I will try just bare with me.....Well today's topic is Fakes and Phonies...I was out somewhere there other night and as I sat and looked around I noticed I never saw so many fake and phony people in one room at one time...These are the same people who will be your friends to your face but don't turn your back or you will probably have a meat cleaver hanging out of it with their fingerprints all over it...Now I know its human nature not to like some people cause hell I know I don't and in the same breathe I know there are probably some people that don't like me but as I say I wasn't put here to please everyone but anyways why act like a friend to someone and treat them like trash behind their back bad mouthing them to people and when it finally catches up to the person bad mouthing whoever and will all the fact and the lies they still swear it wasn't them....I figure if you can talk it make sure you can back it up..A.K.A. Don't write a check your ass cant cash(you can thank my mom for the lovely metaphor she always said that when I was a kid) Cause know there are people that I talk to that don't get along but if I am friends with both of them I'm not gonna drop one person for the other...Also I have noticed that other bbws have no problem sabotaging another bbw in her effort to do something nice or god forbid a bigger bbw walks in with a very handsome man on her arm you always have other bbws bigger or smaller then her asking"Why is HE with HER"? Instead of being happy for her they are trying to pry into her business about how they met and things like that and its not cause they care it's because they want to turn it all around or be nasty becasue she has something they don't....I swear there are moments when I'm with some of these people that I feel like im back in highschool with all the gossip and backstabbing and jealously seeing who can up the otherand since you ahve to be 21 and over to be at these parties my guess is most of us have been out of higjschool for at least 4 or more yrs...Well thats my gripe on the topic for now & tomorrow topic is Fuck Buddies: How to have them and not fall for them(Joint Effort help from a friend)

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