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Sunday, November 06, 2005

One Night Stands...This afternoon a neighbor friend of mine who I will call Sally called me in a uproar about something that happened a few nights ago...Now before I continue let me tell you about Sally she is a 50 year old women trying to reclaim here 20's....Well I guess she went out a few nights ago to Muckelshoot(for those of you not in WA its a casino) well he was in his early thirties and I guess they hung out and had a few drinks and she invited him back to her place where obviuosly(SP) they had sex as if you didn't see that coming.........

So after it was all said and done she says he gets up and says thanx that was fun then looked at his watch and said Oh Shit I have to get home before my wife does....The next thing she says was I can't believe he was married he didn't say anything about that and he didn't have a ring only like well he didn't say anything about being married cause he thought you wouldn't give him any ass and well he took his ring off cause he went there looking for a piece of ass...She was like well I feel violated I'm like well I hate to tell you but it takes two its not like he forced you to sleep with him or he made you take him back to your place that was your own decision to do those things all he lied to you about was being married...I'm like why would you bring some man you just met home to your apt not knowing if he is a killer or a rapist or what not well he seemed interested in me she says....Well then you guys could have talked and exhaust numbers or something you could have gotten yourself seriously hurt...Then she says to me well I'm a big girl in size and in maturity so thanx for your concern but its not needed...My reply well if your a big girl and you can deal with it then deal with the fact the you fucked a married man and get over it don't play the victim cause I'm sorry your not the next thing I know she is changing the subject to something else...I'm sorry but if you gonna have a one night stand you need to take responsibility for it you can't blame the other person like you weren't there so if your going to have one then you have to deal with the consequences of your actions

//Rae-N-Washington struck at 11:16 PM\\